If you walk into a room and forget why, lose your train of thought mid-sentence, or can't hold instructions in your head, this is why.

This topic is for you if:

  • You feel like your brain has a tiny notepad
  • Your working memory fails at the worst moments
  • You lose important information between hearing it and acting on it

Key Takeaways

  • Working memory is the mental 'clipboard' that holds information while you use it.
  • ADHD brains often have smaller working memory capacity and lose information more easily.
  • External memory systems compensate for internal limitations. Use them liberally.

Key Takeaways

  • Working memory is the mental 'clipboard' that holds information while you use it.
  • ADHD brains often have smaller working memory capacity and lose information more easily.
  • External memory systems compensate for internal limitations. Use them liberally.

What Is Working Memory?

Working memory is more than just short-term recall. It's an active system that allows you to hold information in mind while simultaneously using or processing that information.

Think of it as your brain's RAM: the space where you hold the phone number while dialing, the instructions while following them, or the beginning of a sentence while completing it.

Working Memory in ADHD

Individuals with ADHD often have a smaller working memory capacity. Information "falls off" the mental clipboard more easily, especially when distracted. This is a core executive function deficit in ADHD that affects learning, following instructions, and completing multi-step tasks.

How Working Memory Challenges Manifest

Common Experiences:

  • Forgetting what you were about to say mid-sentence
  • Walking into a room and forgetting why
  • Losing track of instructions before completing them
  • Needing to re-read paragraphs multiple times
  • Losing your train of thought when interrupted
  • Forgetting parts of multi-step requests
  • Missing details in conversations
  • Struggling to hold numbers in your head while calculating

The Meeting Memory Challenge:

During a client meeting, you're simultaneously trying to:

  • Listen to what they're saying now
  • Remember what they said earlier
  • Think about how to respond
  • Note action items for later
  • Track the meeting time

For someone with working memory challenges, this is like juggling while someone keeps throwing more balls. Something will drop.

Business Impact:

  • Important details slip through the cracks
  • Conversations require repetition
  • Multi-step processes executed incompletely
  • Difficulty following complex instructions
  • Losing track of project requirements
  • Forgetting commitments made in meetings

External Memory Systems

Since internal working memory is limited, the solution is to externalize memory functions. Your environment becomes an extension of your brain.

1. Capture Everything Immediately

The Principle: Don't trust your brain to remember. Write it down the moment it occurs.

Tools:

  • Pocket notebook always accessible
  • Voice memos for ideas on the go
  • Quick-capture app on every device
  • Whiteboard in your workspace
Try This:

Create a "capture reflex": the automatic habit of writing down any thought, task, or commitment immediately. It should feel uncomfortable to not capture something.

2. Document Conversations in Real-Time

The Principle: Take notes during conversations, not after.

Strategies:

  • Type notes during video calls
  • Use a notepad during in-person meetings
  • Record important calls (with permission)
  • Summarize key points before ending conversations

Real-Time Meeting Documentation:

Instead of trying to remember everything from a client call, Maria types notes directly into a shared document during the conversation. At the end, she reads back key points and action items, confirming understanding while it's fresh.

3. Create Visual Reminders

The Principle: Make information visible in your environment.

Applications:

  • Sticky notes for immediate priorities
  • Whiteboards for ongoing projects
  • Visual dashboards for key metrics
  • Physical objects as task reminders

4. Use Checklists and Templates

The Principle: Don't rely on remembering steps. Document them.

Applications:

  • Checklists for recurring processes
  • Templates for common documents
  • Standard operating procedures
  • Pre-meeting preparation lists
Try This:

Create a checklist for any process you do more than twice. The checklist becomes your "external memory" for that task, freeing your working memory for higher-level thinking.

5. Leverage Technology

The Principle: Let devices remember what your brain forgets.

Tools:

  • Calendar with detailed event notes
  • Task management apps with reminders
  • Password managers
  • Automated recurring reminders
  • Cloud storage with good search

Strategies During Work

1. Single-Tasking

Multitasking is especially challenging with limited working memory. Focus on one thing at a time.

  • Close unnecessary applications
  • Hide distracting browser tabs
  • Put phone in another room
  • Complete one task before starting another

2. External Processing

When solving complex problems, get your thinking out of your head:

  • Talk through problems out loud
  • Sketch diagrams and mind maps
  • Write out options and considerations
  • Use a whiteboard for brainstorming

3. Reduce Memory Load

Simplify tasks to reduce working memory demands:

  • Break complex instructions into single steps
  • Use checklists for multi-step processes
  • Create templates that guide you through tasks
  • Automate anything that can be automated

Reducing Memory Load in Client Onboarding:

Instead of remembering the 12-step client onboarding process, Tom created a template in his project management tool. Each step auto-populates when he starts a new client, and he just works through the checklist. His working memory is freed for actually serving the client.

4. Strategic Repetition

When you need to remember something temporarily:

  • Repeat it aloud several times
  • Connect it to something memorable
  • Write it down immediately
  • Create a physical reminder

Protecting Working Memory

Minimize Distractions

Every distraction taxes working memory. Reduce environmental interruptions:

  • Notification silencing during focused work
  • Physical workspace designed for focus
  • "Do not disturb" signals for others
  • Scheduled check-in times instead of constant availability

Manage Cognitive Load

Some times are worse for working memory than others:

  • Avoid complex decisions when tired
  • Schedule demanding tasks for peak focus times
  • Build breaks into intensive work
  • Recognize when working memory is depleted

Support With Basics

Working memory is particularly vulnerable to:

  • Sleep deprivation
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Hunger and dehydration
  • Physical discomfort

Maintaining these basics protects your limited working memory capacity.

Communication Strategies

When Receiving Information:

  • Ask people to repeat or slow down
  • Take notes in real-time
  • Summarize back what you heard
  • Request written follow-up for complex information

When Giving Information:

  • Break complex messages into parts
  • Provide written summaries of verbal discussions
  • Check for understanding
  • Follow up important conversations in writing
Try This:

Make it a habit to send a brief email summary after any important conversation: "Just to confirm what we discussed..." This creates a record and catches any working memory gaps.

Self-Assessment: Working Memory Support

Rate each area (1 = Rarely, 5 = Consistently):

  • I capture thoughts and tasks immediately when they occur
  • I take notes during conversations and meetings
  • I use checklists for multi-step processes
  • I have a reliable system for storing and finding information
  • I minimize distractions during focused work
  • I summarize important conversations in writing
  • I break complex tasks into smaller steps
  • I use templates for recurring work

Scores of 3 or below indicate opportunities to strengthen external memory systems.

Summary

  • Working memory is the mental "clipboard" that holds information while you use it
  • ADHD brains often have smaller capacity and lose information more easily
  • External memory systems compensate for internal limitations
  • Capture everything immediately. Don't trust your brain to remember.
  • Document conversations in real-time, not after
  • Use checklists and templates for recurring processes
  • Minimize distractions to protect limited working memory capacity
  • Support working memory through sleep, stress management, and basic self-care

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